Life of an Empress

Sunday, February 7, 2016

Eric Scott Allison: Arrested and Mugshot

Eric Scott Allison Mugshot And Arrest Warrant
Arrest Warrant: Eric Scott Allison, born March 11, 1971, from Chester, California, USA, CEO of Exigo Ventures Consultancy Inc., Acqhire Inc., EA Global Response and Founder of Pulse Healthcare, a is a foreigner living in the Philippines, previously investigated by NBI Bacolod for rape of an underage Filipina girl as documented by Sun.Star, charged for Estafa in Cebu, sued for libel in Makati. He was now arrested by Philippine National Police on Dec. 27, 2015 at Serendra, BGC, Taguig and booked for jail.

Wednesday, January 20, 2016

Rich Dad, Poor Mom


RICH DAD, POOR MOM. Branded clothes & shoes don't make u nor teach u to be classy. Money & fame don't stop u fr being a homewrecker as u all have witnessed already. People of real intellect don't make comments like that. But just for fun & education of brainless fans of @vina_morales let me answer their dopey comments. I don't need to show off what I have nor show it when I hv more of it in the future bec I live in a country where 97% can't buy these stuff, why would I make them feel worse than they already are by uploading on IG & create unnecessary jealousy of these material things, worse make myself "kidnappable." I empathize w/ poor people bec my mother side came from poverty & they taught me not to be "mayabang" no matter what u have in life. I simultaneously grow up seeing d wealth of my father side & this I'm not very proud to say but I saw them fight over money during breakfasts - they hv many businesses, my great grandpa was called a "DON" during his time, owning several massive lands in Nueva Ecija which is now causing d current family feud amongst d children which includes my "Rich Dad" This family didn't treat my "Poor Mom" right, worse my Rich Daddy left us (very teleserye-like where the rich look down on poor people). I'm more proud to say I'm brought up by two women not fed by silver spoons, bec they taught me humility, joy in simplicity, rewards of hard work and what real classy means. If u have a rotting character inside, no branded stuff can cover that. But I do understand people who comment like that, they just don't know better. We live in a society where people are brainwashed by TV & advertisements so it's just understandable why there r brainless people w/ distorted perspectives of the world. No one should be ashamed of having nothing if u know how to treat people right, never a superficial, not social climbing, & working your way up with hard work. Invest on business books instead of branded stuff. {Reply to comments of Vina Morales Fans re Avi Siwa not showing/having branded stuff on IG; title is a play on book "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" by Robert Kiyosaki} #womenempowerment #empresstalkssomesensetobrainlessretards

Wednesday, December 16, 2015

I'm An Empress, Not A Servant Of Any Man

I'M AN EMPRESS, NOT A SERVANT OF ANY MAN. While waiting at the pediatrician's reception, holding Victoria in her cute mini mouse jumpsuit, I mused on some personal and business strategies for next year. I officially became the sole decision maker of my company a few months ago. If I fail or succeed, it will be because of my moves. This is the first time in my life I will have no business partners to bounce ideas to. It's exciting at the same time a little scary. But I'm doing it. My first move next year is to get a job that will cover the lifestyle I want for myself and Victoria; and be able to finance the business concepts until I'm ready to take in business partners. I never received salaries for the last 6 years of my life in exchange for owning 50% of SlyEmpire Inc. as an industrial partner while my previous business partner poured investment into it. I was a Marketing Director for a Hong Kong Investment Firm and became a VP for Business Development for a Dubai Management Company, both commission based & hardest to close. This means I'm starting from scratch again. I've done this before, I can do it again. But this time I'm covering my ass on all sides. Second move is I will study as if I'm doing an MBA. I will be so focused and selfish of my time and keep building my financial intelligence. No lovers, no distractions, no BS. Relationships slow me down, I get less aggressive. I get into this comfort zone and become a housewife type of girlfriend. I compromise. I give a huge part of my time, time meant for building my dreams. I hate that. I'm meant to conquer the world and not do house chores, movie marathons and breakfasts in bed. I am an Empress not a servant of any man. If I have to be alone to build my empire, so be it. No one and nothing will slow me down again. #truth #2016 #bossbabe #ceo #founder #entrepreneur

Sunday, November 29, 2015

Single Mom Redefined

SINGLEMOM REDEFINED. I used to fear the words "Single Mom" because I was raised by a single mother - my mom. I saw how hard she worked to give us  a good life, fulfilling both roles of a mother and a father. Even if she never said a word, I felt her struggles. I excelled in school because I thought that by being the best, it would ease my mom's pains of being away for months as she worked as an OFW. The thought of abandonment was so distressful that I avoided talks about of having a child and a family. This fear disappeared though a year ago when one man said "Give me a child." It was deep and beautiful, I felt instantly connected to his soul. The connection was so powerful and so divine that I said YES to it. Unfortunately, fate broke us two days before we found out I was pregnant. It was the happiest day, at the same time the most devastating moment of my life. A child without a marriage. I was faced by the thing I feared the most. "Why me?" I asked God a hundred times. I couldn't accept it. I cried almost every night for 9 months wanting to have a man beside me to share the wonderful blessing, someone to love and care for me. There was nobody. I felt incomplete. But as I longed for someone, I found strength from being alone too. Strength I have never experienced before. But I was too weak and too consumed by my fear to embrace it. I felt like giving up many times, but the little angel inside me kept me company and gave me light. She guided and showed me the way during the times I felt so lost. I was torn apart in too many ways but I was gaining something unfamiliar. A new kind of strength was slowly filling the void and building up from my core - FEARLESSNESS - to the highest level. Today, as I write the words "Single Mom," I no longer fear it, nor think of it as something so terrifying. Instead, I am celebrating and very grateful for being one. It's a weapon, an armour and a shield combined. I may have lost  moments of 9 months, but I gained a million times more into the future. The struggles had to happen, it was inevitable. It was preparing me for something even bigger. I had to lose my fears. I had to cry it all out. I had to be alone. Now I am ready for all of it. #bringiton #faceyourfears #embracethosestruggles #positivevibes #seetheopportunity #singlemom #singlemothers #lovingit

Thursday, November 26, 2015

Ego Down

EGO DOWN. It took a lot of strength to bring my ego down and I did it today. After weeks of emotional turbulence, seeing the best and worst of myself, I gave in to real maturity. I will not be apologetic nor try to look saintly because I'm far from it. But what I will be right now moving forward is to be the best mom to my beautiful child and the best co-parent to someone who is so giving and caring to me and my little angel. The way to win a war, sometimes, is not to fight but to surrender yourself wholeheartedly ---- not necessarily compromising everything you are nor losing your character and value --- but knowing when to give up what you want, what you think you deserve and just give in. It's the beauty and quintessence of femininity. Looking forward to a wonderful, sweet life with  Victoria and coming back to business building!  #heartofanempress  #artofmotherhood  #magnanimous #optimistic #positivethinking #fallharder #getupfaster #happyparenting

Monday, October 26, 2015

Vina Morales

VINA MORALES. Actually @vina_morales I changed my mind.Stay d hell out of my parenting w/ MARC LAMBERT. Ur a new girlfriend & don't have any right to tell me how I shld deal w/ this.Even if u get a ring on ur finger, u have no right to stand between my child & her Dad.Don't bring ur insecurities in my social media.But if u like to embarrass urself more, go ahead pls do so & I'll spill here how ur fans are so wrong abt their 'goodie-two-shoe' idol.Ur no angel, & I surely am not one too - takes one to know one - so pls stop trying to look innocent to Marc to get him to the altar, we can smell your stink miles frm here.Ur flipping out w/a small cropped photo of Marc,saying I can't post his photo w/ his child & then stopping his visitation to his daughter bec he wasn't @ your birthday.Then sending nasty comments here & then saying u want to meet my child.Ur d biggest plastic loser I've ever met.While u shamelessly broadcast ur 'new found love' on every media possible knowing I'm a few weeks frm delivery.So much for being Single Mom.I don't buy ur lies, & NO we don't have d same story - u've been spoiled by Cedric during ur pregnancy & got paid good support while I was alone all throughout mine w/ support not as huge as urs - so be grateful.NO we didn't just break up, me & M r hooking up during d 9months - so you wr fooled.NO you don't know everything abt me & Marc so stop talking like u do just based on some emails.Why dnt u instead spend your time caring for Ceana instead of trying to be d ultimate desperate (literally) housewife -- yes we know you're 40years old & desperately needing a husband to who can take ur shit bec no one wants to, makes a lot of sense.So let me be d one to give u a "very friendly reminder", know ur position (Only 2 months w/ Marc), recognize AVI SIWA d mother of ur current BF's child is NO SUCKER & don't stop Marc again frm seeing his child.If ur game is destroying families,then u made d wrong move on destroying mine.Don't u ever talk to me that way again.Watch what u say next if u don't want d whole country knowing ur dirty little secrets Ms. Pa-InnocentFace.Ur disgusting.#homewrecker #divaturnedugly #part2 #and #action #imnojudy #bitchon

Monday, October 19, 2015

Ultimate Title

ULTIMATE TITLE. I was about to sleep at 2am on October 12 when a sharp pain kicked in and followed by more cramps every 10 minutes. After the 5th pain, I woke my mom up and said to her "Let's go." She knew immediately what I meant. My mom drove the opposite side of the road using blinking hazard lights & crazy honking to beat the neverending traffic in Quirino Hway. I was thankful the hospital was only a few kilometers away as the pain went from 10 down to 5 minute intervals. I get to the emergency room holding hard on to the bed railings from excruciating pain. I screamed,  cursed and meditated hoping the pain subsides but it only grew stronger. The first  injected pain reliever didn't  work and I cried of pain thinking of all the mother's in the world who went through the same, wondering how they all got through it. My mom said "You can do this." I wanted to believe her. Thank God my OB and anesthesiologist finally arrived, and after 8 hours of labor I was injected Epidural which immediately relieved me of all the pain, numbing everything except the little force coming out. On the 6th push, out came an angelic cry. Victoria, my Little Empress is born. She is now a week old and I'm mastering being a mom to her, clueless of this unfettered territory but learning fast as I change diapers, sing lullabies, bath her, put her to sleep while breastfeeding. Universe, thank you for giving me a healthy and strong baby girl. Thank you to my Mom, family and friends who were there all throughout 9 months of pregnancy, your love and emotional support made Victoria a beautiful, sweet and always smiling baby. The hospital team who were so caring, attentive to my needs and my fabulous OB for making me feel so secure during the whole process of delivery - thank you so much. I especially want thank the father of Victoria who gave me the most precious gift a woman can have, a child, I'll be forever grateful to you. And to you Victoria, my Little Empress, thank you for giving me the  ultimate title in the world - Your Mom. I will treasure this and make you very proud. #ultimatelove #babygirl #victoria #ourmonamour #proud #mom #motherhood #mompress #now #life #sowonderful #avisiwa #mrcl

Friday, September 25, 2015

Taming The Empress

TAMING THE EMPRESS. Someone said I'm stubborn, too ambitious, my ego too big, that I should change my company name and stop calling myself an Empress. I couldn't believe what I was hearing and who I was hearing it from. Offended, hurt and disappointed, I started doubting myself -  the most awful 10 seconds of my life. He was right I have a huge ego, that I'm overly confident and (probably) insane for self-proclaiming myself an Empress. But then I thought, this person has no clue who I really am, where I came from and experiences I've been through. No one really knows how I see the world, my world, how I envision my future and what it took to become who I am today. People will never truly understand the pains (emotionally, mentally & financially) and sacrifices of being an entrepreneur, not having the right financial backing all the time and building my company from scratch. Why wouldn't I dream this big? Why would I settle for less? Why wouldn't I build my dream the way I want it? Why would I listen to someone who really isn't in the position I'd like to be in? And why would I give a F when it is I working day and night to build this empire? Everyone is entitled to their own opinion sure, but you have every right to do what pleases you - especially if you can back it up. You have to be ready with this type of  situation. You really have to stand firm and believe in yourself, so that when people start to doubt you and question your abilities, you don't lose yourself in their unsupported ideas. I learned this the hard way when I listened to a few people close to me years ago. I lost my self-belief and gave my power to them. I felt the lowest version of myself. Never again. I like supermodel Naomi Campbell (my favorite model of all time) she knows exactly what she wants and she gets it everytime. She might be called a bitch and a diva but look at how successful she is. To be this successful, you can't listen to every person who tells you you can't make it or incapable of making your dream a reality. They bring you down because they're scared of your success, because maybe you will make it and prove them wrong. I have no problem listening people's to advice and love to take any criticism because I learn from it. But I always follow my own gut feelings and never change my dreams just to fit into their world. So YES. I am too stubborn to give in. Too ambitious to give up. Ego too big to fold. Who says I can't call myself an Empress? I can call myself whatever I feel like it. And Empress, tamed? Not in their wildest dreams. They can try, but they will fail miserably. I promise you this. What's next? Let's talk business.

Saturday, September 12, 2015

Killing It


KILLING IT. I'm juggling preparing for my delivery, meeting doctors, doing medical tests, & hustling while on the move, hospital & home. I'm never stopping, never slowing down, always thinking, strategizing & pushing things forward. I'm smiling at the thought of how things changed & still are changing for me. Challenging, but I like challenges. Soon I'm going to be a mom. Avi Siwa, a mom, can you believe that? This didn't sound right about 1.5 years ago. You would be laughing with me, if you heard me saying then I will never have children, not yet & not now. It didn't fit my masterplan, my priorities & what I needed to do to build a business empire. Having a baby sounded so far from how I'm feeling right now. But the right moment came and I agreed to have a baby with someone very special. It felt perfectly right and beautiful. And even when that relationship didn't work out, I felt complete, happy and the luckiest woman in the world. Not only was I given a gift of motherhood, I was given freedom to do whatever I want to do at my own pace and prove myself in business without interruptions and compromise, to call the shots on my own. Victoria is the key to these new perspectives, wisdom, building my business and personal growth. She has been my motivation, inspiration, the unending strength the past 8 months. And I know that when I officially become a mother to her, she will be my arms in every business deal I close and we will kill it together. I'm ready to be a mother. #ceo #slyempire #positiveinfluence #powerofintention #momtobe #booyah #tothetop

Wednesday, September 9, 2015

Epiphany


EPIPHANY. Do you believe everything happens for a reason? I surely do. This saying manifested itself in an overwhelmingly cool divine way yesterday. I was with business associates at a cafe, thinking how amazing it was being with people 15 years older than me, listening to their wisdom on life and business. We were wrapping up at sunset and suddenly I had an epiphany. I saw the future. I saw my life 5, 10, 20 etc. years from now. It was clear. I knew then what I needed to do to get there. It was like I was put in a bubble where I don't hear the outside world, it was just myself and this vision. I saw my daughter Victoria in my arms, saw her growing up, we are so happy. I'm at the peak of my success, strong, wise and extremely beautiful jewelled in this sleek corporate outfit and Louboutins. I saw a party in a penthouse full of beautiful people, this penthouse is mine. I saw everything I wanted. "Avi, we will work on this all day tomorrow..." my business partner says snapping me back to reality. As I was going home last night, through pouring rain and chaos, I came back to this bubble and revisited this epiphany. My mind was at work, thinking step by step what I need to do. Everything happens for a reason indeed. I have to be here, nowhere else, to get to where I am destined to go. #ceo #bossbabe #slyempire #entrepreneurship #entrepreneur #businessmind #businesswoman #versace #armanicode